People are made in pairs. You find yourself so at peace and happier with a person and quite distressed by another. Sometimes we invest so much time, effort and emotion in a relationship which eventually turns out not working, it is heartbreaking. But have you stopped to ask whether your girlfriend is good for you? You know some persons are not just compatible, little wonder why we often have cases of breakups and divorces caused by irreconcilable differences.
To know from the outset that your girlfriend is not good for you, watch out for these signs:
1. She downplays your emotion
If your girlfriend does not give much thought to your emotions or feelings, it is a definite sign that she is bad for you. Lovers are suppose to be compassionate about each others feelings so as to understand how they other person feels.
2. She isn’t open about many things
A good relationship is one of shared secrets, one that gives insight into the strengths and weaknesses of both partners. This builds a stronger bond and spiritual kinship.
If she shows disinterest in your attempt to connect with her, most probably, she is not the right one.
3. She is inconsiderate of your needs
A relationship is suppose to be mutually benefiting and considerate of needs. If she seems to be always asking for sacrifices or compromises at your detriment, it means she is the selfish type. You wouldn’t want to spend your life with a selfish partner right?
4. She is excessively jealous
It may come across as cute at first, but as time goes on, her extreme jealous will become rather scary. Especially when it begins to exceed the borderline of reason. Having such a partner may become a serious trouble with time. You better up and leave before it gets too late.
5. She is too attached
Lovebirds are clingy to each, especially in the beginning of their relationship. However, the bustling and hassling reality of life momentarily separates them. Now, it is a cause for alarm if she seems to be too attached; she literally cannot keep away from you for long or do anything without you. This could aggravate to obsession and eventual trouble for you.
It has been said that what is good for the goose is not good for the gander. Reason and don’t get carried away, look out for the right signs when searching for a partner, so as not to fall into the league of couples with irreconcilable differences.
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