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‘How I Lost My Pregnant Wife, Children in Lagos Building Collapse — And My Parents to Herdsmen in Benue’

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By Fabian Apechihin

46-year-old businessman, Emmanuel Otache, shares his heartbreaking story with Grace Edema


“I woke up seven months later to learn my wife and children were gone.”

It happened on October 12, 2019, in Magodo, Isheri, Lagos. A building behind my apartment suddenly collapsed into my home, killing my pregnant wife and our three children.

That evening, I had just returned from a business trip. My wife was feeding the children while I rested in the sitting room. Then I heard a loud sound—like thunder. Before I could even react, everything came crashing down.

I don’t remember what happened afterward. The next thing I recall was waking up seven months later in the hospital, wrapped in bandages. That was when I was told my wife and children didn’t survive.


“It felt like dying while still alive.”

When I regained consciousness and heard the news, I couldn’t speak for days. I didn’t believe it until I saw their pictures. I had lost everything—my family, my home, my business. Life stopped for me that day.


“Doctors fixed an iron rod from my waist to my knees.”

My legs and waist were badly crushed in the collapse. At LASUTH, Ikeja, doctors inserted an iron rod from my waist to my knees so that I could stand and walk again.

They told me it should be removed within two to three years, but I couldn’t afford it. The procedure was estimated to cost about ₦15 million, and I’ve been living with the pain ever since.


“After losing my family, I lost my parents to herdsmen.”

After the collapse, I left Lagos and returned to my village, Opaha, in Benue State, to start afresh. But tragedy struck again in April 2023 when herdsmen attacked our community, killing 95 people, including my father, mother, uncles, and four siblings.

The attack started around 3 p.m. and lasted until 11 p.m. One of my uncles hid me under a tarpaulin in the kitchen. The gunmen shot and burned houses until late in the night.

When soldiers and police arrived around 4 a.m., they thought I was dead. I was taken to a hospital, where I later regained consciousness.


“Everything I had was wiped out again.”

In May 2025, there was another attack that destroyed what remained of our family home. By then, I had already returned to Lagos through AKC Transport, hoping to raise money for my surgery and rebuild my life.

Now, I live with a friend in Adamo Elias, Ikorodu. He used to ride an okada but now works as a security guard. Life has been tough for both of us.


“I can’t work; I live on help from friends and neighbours.”

Because of the iron in my body, I use two crutches and can’t stand for long. I depend on my friend and kind neighbours for food. Some days, I go without eating.

I still visit pharmacies for painkillers when I can afford them, but the pain is constant.


“Government has not helped me.”

I wrote letters to the Kosofe Local Government, the Governor of Lagos State, and the Governor of Benue State, but I never got any response. I have been struggling on my own since the tragedy.


“All I ask is a chance to live again.”

What I need most now is help to remove the iron rod in my body and support to restart my phone accessories business. I am not lazy — I just want a chance to live a normal life again.

“I have lost my wife, my children, my parents, and my home. All I ask is for help — from the government, churches, NGOs, or kind Nigerians — so I can start over.”


“My faith keeps me going.”

Despite everything, I still believe in God. I’ve seen death and survived it multiple times. That’s what gives me hope that one day, someone will hear my story and help me live again.


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SANKARA NIGERIA LIMITED PARTNERS LOVOL TO EMPOWER AFRICAN YOUTHS THROUGH MECHANIZATION TRAINING IN KADUNA

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In a bold step toward tackling youth unemployment and advancing agricultural mechanization in Nigeria and across Africa, Sankara Nigeria Limited, in partnership with LOVOL, has successfully launched an intensive training programme aimed at equipping young people with modern mechanical and technical skills.
The initiative, which focuses on contemporary mechanized systems and agricultural equipment maintenance, is designed to build a new generation of skilled technicians capable of driving Africa’s agricultural transformation. The programme provides hands-on training in modern mechanical practices, particularly in the operation, servicing, and maintenance of advanced farming machinery.
Speaking on the development, Dr. Nafiu Danladi Sankara described the opportunity as both impactful and timely, noting that the programme represents a strategic investment in human capital development. According to him, the collaboration between Sankara Nigeria Limited and LOVOL underscores a shared commitment to empowering African youths with practical knowledge that fosters self-reliance and reduces dependence on white-collar employment.
He emphasized that the training is not limited to Nigeria alone but extends across Africa, reflecting a broader vision to create a continent-wide network of competent technicians who can support the growing demand for mechanized farming solutions.
“This initiative is about more than training; it is about creating opportunities, restoring dignity to labour, and building a future where young people can stand on their own through acquired skills,” he stated.
The technical workshop, which drew participants from different parts of the region, was held in Kaduna State, specifically in Zaria, at Unguwa Kaya Junction, New Jos Road, KM 2.
Participants in the programme expressed appreciation for the quality of training and the exposure to modern equipment, noting that such initiatives are critical in bridging the skills gap in the agricultural and mechanical sectors.
The programme also received warm support from the host community in Zaria, located in the historic Zazzau Emirate, where participants were welcomed with remarkable hospitality. Organizers and trainees alike commended the people of Zaria for their generosity and encouraging reception, which contributed to the overall success of the exercise.
As Nigeria continues to seek sustainable solutions to unemployment and food security challenges, initiatives like this stand as a testament to the role of private sector collaboration in national development. By equipping young people with relevant, market-driven skills, Sankara Nigeria Limited and LOVOL are not only transforming lives but also laying a solid foundation for economic growth and agricultural modernization across the continent.

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NNPCL Must Account for N210trn by April 29 – Senate

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…Orders Ojulari-led management to produce Kyari, others before committee

From Taiye Hassan
The Senate, on Wednesday, through its Committee on Public Accounts, fixed April 29, 2026, as the deadline for the management of the Nigerian National Petroleum Company Limited (NNPCL) to appear before it and account for the alleged N210 trillion flagged in audit reports covering 2017 to 2023.
The committee directed the Group Chief Executive Officer (GCEO) of NNPCL, Engineer Bayo Ojulari, to appear alongside the immediate past GCEO, Mele Kyari; former Chief Financial Officer, Umar Ajia; Dr. Bala Wunti; and the company’s external auditors on the scheduled date without fail.
The resolution followed a motion moved by Senator Osita Izunaso (Imo West) and seconded by Senator Adams Oshiomhole (Edo North).
Chairman of the committee, Senator Aliyu Wadada (Nasarawa West), stressed that the N210 trillion in question, as contained in the audit reports, must be fully accounted for by the company’s management, particularly the immediate past leadership led by Kyari.
According to him, the responses so far provided by NNPCL to the 19 audit queries were unsatisfactory, noting that Nigerians deserve clear, detailed, and transparent explanations.
“This committee, and by extension the Senate, is not satisfied with the blanket explanation given by NNPCL on the N103 trillion it claimed represents liabilities. Liabilities comprise components such as retention fees, legal fees, and audit fees, and the specific amounts spent on each must be clearly stated and justified,” he said.
Wadada also demanded a detailed breakdown of the N107 trillion which the company claimed was expended on Joint Venture (JV) cash calls, as well as funds allegedly owed by some defunct banks whose identities were not disclosed.
“Consequently, it is hereby resolved that NNPCL is given an additional two weeks to appear before this committee unfailingly. The deadline for compliance is Wednesday, April 29, 2026,” he added.
Earlier, a member of the committee, Senator Abdul Ningi (Bauchi Central), called for the invocation of the National Assembly’s powers to compel the appearance of NNPCL management, citing repeated failures to honour invitations.
“We must treat this matter with the utmost seriousness. The essence of democracy rests significantly on the strength and authority of the legislature. Unfortunately, in recent times, there appears to be a growing reluctance by individuals to honour invitations from the National Assembly, leaving members feeling helpless in compelling appearances before committees,” he said.

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APC Group To Kwara Political Actors: Shun Violence, Hate Speech

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A frontline political group in the All Progressives Congress (APC) in Kwara State have charged political actors across the 16 local government areas of the State to shun violence, rancour and hate speech before, during and after the 2027 general elections.

The APC group, under the aegis of the Asa Progressive Movement (APM), has, therefore, sued for peaceful, issue-based campaigns, devoid of acrimony and name-calling, ahead of the elections.

The Movement made this call in Afon, headquarters of the Asa local government at the endorsement programme of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu for second term, as well as the governorship ambition of former Kwara State APC Chairman, Hon. Bashir Omolaja Bolarinwa.

In a communique signed by the APM Coordinator and the Secretary, Engineer Daud Oladipupo Babatunde and Comrade Yusuf Mutiu Akorede respectively, the Movement said: “We are committed to a peaceful, issue-based campaign and we, therefore, urge all political actors to shun violence, hate speech, and any conduct capable of heating up the polity.

“We call on all well-meaning sons and daughters of Kwara State, regardless of party affiliation, to join this movement for the restoration and advancement of our dear State.

“The 2027 election is about the future of our children and we must rise above petty sentiments.

“We pass a vote of confidence in Hon. Bashir Omolaja Bolarinwa and in the leadership of our great party, the APC, for presenting to the people a competent, credible, and compassionate candidate.

“All structures of the Movement, from the State to the polling unit levels, are hereby directed to commence immediate and intensive mobilisation for the reelection of President Bola Ahmed Tinubu and the candidature of Hon. Bashir Omolaja Bolarinwa. Every member is now an ambassador of these two projects.”

The communique reads further: “Our decision is predicated on Hon. Bolarinwa’s proven track record of service as former Councillor, former Council Chairman, former member of the Federal House of Representatives, former State Chairman of the party, who led the party to 100 percent victory in the 2019 elections, and former Board Chairman of the NBC; his desire to tackle the lingering problems of insecurity, youth unemployment, and agricultural revival; and his integrity, accessibility, and capacity to unite the diverse peoples of the State.

“The APM unanimously endorses Tinubu for second term and Bolarinwa as our preferred candidate for the office of Governor in the 2027 general elections under the platform of the All Progressives Congress (APC).”

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